1. Funeral Programs / Orders of Service
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Why you shouldn’t throw them away:
Funeral programs contain the deceased’s life details, photos, and tributes. They act as a tangible memory of the ceremony and the people who attended. -
What to do:
Store them in a memory box, scrapbook, or digital scan to preserve for family history.
2. Floral Arrangements / Wreaths
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Why you shouldn’t throw them away immediately:
Flowers often symbolize love, respect, and condolences. Even after they wilt, certain dried flowers or petals can be pressed and preserved as keepsakes. -
What to do:
Dry petals in a book or frame arrangements as memory decorations. Some cultures also use flowers in ashes memorials.
3. Sympathy Cards & Letters
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Why you shouldn’t throw them away:
These cards contain heartfelt messages from friends and relatives. They’re a source of comfort and can be revisited during grief or special anniversaries. -
What to do:
Keep them in a memory box or binder. Some families even read them aloud on anniversaries or birthdays of the deceased.
4. Personal Items / Mementos from the Service
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Examples: candles, photos, or small tokens like memorial bookmarks.
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Why you shouldn’t throw them away:
These items are tangible reminders of shared grief and remembrance. They help families process emotions and maintain a connection to their loved one. -
What to do:
Display them in a special memory corner at home or keep them in a keepsake box.
Why These Items Matter
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They help with grieving by giving physical forms to memories.
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They honor the deceased, preserving cultural or personal traditions.
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They connect family members, even across generations, by sharing stories and artifacts.
If you want, I can also share:
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